How to Enjoy Your First Lesbian love with a Partner who has Experience

If you've never had sex with a woman, but your new partner has. You don't want to look like you don't know what you're doing. Here are some tips for your first lesbian sex with an experienced partner.

She Has Had Sex with a Woman Before, but I Haven't

Everyone has a first time. There is no need to feel ashamed or embarrassed that you have not had sex with a woman before. If you don't feel like you are close enough to your partner to share your feelings about first time sex, then perhaps you're not close enough to have sex with this person.

Sex does make you feel vulnerable, no matter if it is your first time or your 100th time. Especially with someone new who you want to impress. If your partner is kind and considerate (and hopefully she is!), she can take the time to show you a thing or two.

Don't be shy about telling your partner that you are nervous. Ask her to go slow, or take the lead, if that is what you need. You can ask her to tell you what she is going to do to you before she does it, or just let her do the things to you that she enjoys and see if you like it too.

With any new lover, you want to find out what she likes. Ask her to tell you or show you how to touch her. Read her body for signals that she is enjoying it. Does she make soft moaning sounds, move her body into your touch? Those are good signs. If she takes your hand and moves it to a different location, don't feel bad, just let her show you where and how she wants to be touched.

Spend a lot of time kissing, touching each other's bodies, rubbing against each other and caressing to get you in the mood. The more excited and turned on you are, the easier things will be.

You may not have had sex with a woman before, but keep in mind that she has never had sex with YOU before. Although there are generally some things that most women do enjoy in bed, we are all different and something that turns someone else on, might not do the trick for you. For example, some women love to give and receive oral sex. Others don't care for it all. Some women enjoy penetration and others do not. It's up to you to figure out what you do and do not like.

The thing to remember is that there really is nothing you can do wrong when having sex for the first time, aside from hurting your partner. She should tell you if anything you do hurts and then you'll stop. Just try to stay in the moment and move the way you feel drawn to move. Tell her what feels good and if something doesn't feel good, it's okay to tell her to stop, or to slow down, or speed up. What ever it is you're wanting.

The good thing about having sex with someone who has had lesbian sex before is that she knows what to expect. Having sex for the first time can be a really intense experience and sharing it with someone who has been there before can calm you down. She can ask questions and she may even have the answers.

After Your First Lesbian Sex

You might feel any number of ways after your first lesbian sexual experience. You may be elated and excited about what has happened to you. You might feel closer to your partner.

Or you might feel somewhat sad or disappointed. You might feel extra vulnerable and need your partner to reassure you that everything went okay. You might want her to hold you. You might want some time alone. Don't be afraid to ask for what you need and to take care of yourself.